The concept of tantra is universal love . love for the atma/mind/self/consciousness/life energy. love for every jivatma around you and the paramatma, the eternal source of energy . nama shivay ! always be with him. Jai shiva shankara !
Love is not a relationship, love is a state of being; it has nothing to do with anybody else. One is not “in love”, one is love. And of course when one is love, one is in love – but that is an outcome, a by-product, that is not the source. The source is that one is love.